Showing posts from May, 2017

My Jamsie

9 Years ago today I married my Jamsie.  11.5 years ago I met my Jamsie.  1 puppy, 2 kids, 1 successful business built from the ground up (LPC), 1 successful and expanded business of 18 years (Bre-Med), and 2 houses later, here’s where we are xoI couldn’t have planned our life together better if I tried.  I’m proud to be able to call James my husband.  Through our ups and our downs, we’ve learned a lot, had to adapt a lot, learned to compromise, and to listen, to understand, and to not hold onto the stress of the small stuff.  I can honestly say that James is the “funnest” person I have ever met in my life.  From the first day we spent together, to this current day,  he knows how to let loose and have fun.  He’s the light and life of a party, even at the ripe old age of (almost) 40!  The past decade that has defined our life together has made us stronger - both for each other and ourselves.I Love You, Jamsie xoDecember 31, 2005 - Our very first date (New Year’s Eve at the Cottage)Our f…

Garden Love and Spring Cleaning

James officially finished his garage project, while I did some trimming and pruning and touching up of my gardens.  Love afternoon/evenings like this xoNew colour (I usually only get the purple ones)  Finally… done!Never too many pics of my AlliumsThe Fairies are back!A new perennial this year (lets see if our bunny will leave this one alone!)…Zen…It’s not just the beauty of these flowers that I love… they attract the honey bees!  BJAMS is doing it’s part for the bees!My Grandma Huddy would be proud.. Our Lily of the Valley is bigger every year xoAnd a little photo shoot of our beauties

Garage Reno

I learned a few years back when helping my parents in the beginning stages of their downsizing, when they sold our childhood home and moved to a house more suited to their size, how unfortunate it is to keep things “just because” or “maybe someone might want it one day.”  And then now currently seeing the process of downsizing John on the Loaring side, and the stress and time commitment involved; it’s a big learning lesson for everyone.I’ve been teaching our girls that it’s okay (and actually very important) to get rid of things we no longer use or that no longer fit us; that these things will go to families who will use them and who very much need them; and it’s okay to throw things away that are broken or in pieces.  We do this every 2-3 months throughout the house.  The stress relief this gives me, knowing that one day we won’t have a massive undertaking to rid our house of things we were keeping “just in case,” or “we’ll deal with later.” We have a tidier and more organized home b…


My purple flowers remind me of Elena every day.  We celebrated her name day yesterday.  Always in our hearts, Elena 💕

May Long Weekend in Windsor

A bitter-sweet visit for James this weekend.  He said his final goodbye to his childhood home.  Born and raised in this very house, it was James’ last steps in a house that holds many memories.If I’m going to be honest, the realist in me has to admit that our visits to Windsor have changed over the past one to two years.   With the transition of James’ dad downsizing and us living in a different city, it’s brought with it some stress… stress that we all know goes hand in hand with these types of life changes.  We don’t get to enjoy the family time we used to on our visits to Windsor.  We still try to make the most of our time while visiting, especially for the girls.  It’s tough, and this weekend was no exception.Lovingly always known as just “5231” Last steps in his childhood bedroom.Posing in the family roomPeek-a-boo!Bye-bye pretty backyardFront porch posePlaying teacher on the porch while daddy talks to a friend who stopped byThis also happened on Saturday!  Windsor now displays t…